Treasures

Nov. 3rd, 2011 04:34 pm
BLOG “TREASURES”

Three items were positioned on the classroom desk on Thursday-- one of unimportance, one of value/ importance and one meaningful paper item. The first item was an orange-coloured, beat up, old comb. A Cleopatra 400 brand, with black hair dye left on it. At first, I didn't know who this comb belonged to, as it was thrown aside into the unimportant pile of objects. So I drew conclusions. This person has changed her look recently. Maybe she threw this comb away because it was dirty, used, and old news. Perhaps she doesn't care much for superficiality, for her appearance, though the functionality of the item is clear. This is a useful object. In fact, when gazing at the unimportant pile I noticed a similarity between all the items. They were all practical items all necessary and functional and useful but not special or extraordinary. When I finally discovered its owner, I got the full story. This comb belonged to Kathleen.
“Combs are really cheap,” she says. “I can always buy another one.” She uses this item everyday; it is part of her scenery, so it doesn't really matter. To her, combs are a dime a dozen perhaps. Perhaps this is true. One can buy a comb at any dollar store, drug store, shopping mall. They are cheap commodities, easy to come by. Thus, of no real value.

The next item was one of more value and importance. It was Kevin's bag full of sea shells and one tiny emerald. My first thought was that these items were especially significant because they represented a memory of a time or place that was important to the person carrying them. My first instinct was right. Kevin picked up the shells while travelling in South America. Some of them were from diving sites in the Galapagos. The emerald was from a friend who travelled through Columbia and went emerald mining. He really wanted to bring something back with him from those places, as part of a keepsake, part of a memory. It was important to him, because it helps keep these memories alive. I thought this was a very interesting story, I wanted to learn more about his travels. It was amazing to me, how simple an item could have such a story behind it.

Finally, the last item in the bunch, was a piece of paper, actually, a mini flyer of a concert called World Beats located in Australia. I found its owner, Johnny, and started chatting about the flyer. It was obvious that it was from a concert or night out, a flyer that he had picked up once at this event with pop music and free drinks advertised on the front. The story behind it is very interesting. Johnny lived in Sydney, Australia for seven months, and every Thursday night he and his friends would go to this pub crawl at a bar on King's Crossing. It was a ten minute walk from where he was staying. At the time he was reading an interesting book and used this flyer as a bookmark. The music was loud and the walls decorated with old jeans. There was a mini stage and a bar. And everyone gathered around to hear this English guy sing Limp Biscuit. This flyer represented a fascinating part of Johnny's life, partying in Australia.

All in all, what I noticed about the treasures were that everyday items were pitted against real treasures like the sea shells and mementos like the flyer. The significant items were almost like souvenirs brought back from interesting places, and the comb was an everyday item that could be tossed aside. Other unimportant items followed suit. There was a nail clippers, a paper clip, sewing thread, paper coffee cup, among others. They all were everyday commodities that were useful but not special. Whereas the important items were sentimental in nature, not common but special.

Go-Go Girl

Oct. 9th, 2011 07:03 pm
It is hard to describe my friend Deena. She is a complicated woman, a mysterious character full of contradictions and straightforwardness. I met her on the dance circuit. She was twenty four and decked out with long white go-go boots and a tight miniskirt, dancing to Nancy Sinatra on a Wednesday night at Lucky Bar. That was her job. She danced with another girl who was wearing the same matching outfit. It was a fun, flirty routine. Twist, twist, turn, shake, shake, swirl. Do the monkey. Do the swim. Yeah, baby! Her copper hair glistened under the stage lights, her silhouette beckoned against the white backdrop. For a night, she was like a rock star, a celebrity, as fans raised their arms in the air following her mesmerizing dance, touching the stage hoping to catch her eye.
Later she would tell me how she really wanted to be an actress, this was practice in the limelight. But she had been working on her craft, taking acting classes, auditioning for plays. Her favourite was Juliet. I tell you she was a classy gal, despite her seedy job location. She loved the classics like Shakespeare, and she had the face for it. Aquiline, pale skin, bright green eyes, sweet smile that revealed small pearly teeth. At home, she was a lady. At night, she was a creature from another world. Grinding and grooving to the music, the beat running through her undulating body.
What was most striking about her was how little she talked, her mystifying silence. She could memorize long monologues in a single sitting, spout verses of poetry and utter other people’s words, but her own were scarce. It gave them weight, importance, the ones she did say were carefully chosen, deliberate. Her voice was melodic and sing-songy, her cadences rising after each small breath.
One night after hours at the club, a man approached her and said he would like to meet her. She had this policy of not taking strange men home from the bar. She never got too drunk, even when offered free drinks. She just turned to him and smiled and whispered that she was “very shy”. He turned away. She brushed her hair behind her ear.
“Let’s go.” She said to her dance partner. There was late night snacks to be had, and quality girl time. That was her way.
A few years ago, I traveled on a ten-day all expenses paid tour of the holy land, with twenty other young Canadians. We traveled all across the country, but there was one place in particular, that I ended up traveling to on my own after the tour was over and I extended my ticket to stay in the country longer than the tour allotted. It was the city of Eilat, bordering Egypt, on the cusp of the Red Sea. That particular place remains in my mind, in my memory because it was an adventure getting there and back, but it was also full of risks I can only recognize upon reflection, looking back.

When I arrived from the long five hour bus trip to the centre of the city it was 40 degrees outside and the air tasted salty like the sea.

I will attempt to describe the land, as my memory fades over time spent far far away from that place. The way the desert sand felt between my toes, the dust collecting beneath our feet as I walked miles towards the border of Egypt with nothing but my bathing suit, shorts, and a small backpack full of papers. The jagged scenery, sand colored rocks forming like pointed chins off the face of even more giant rocks.

What I don't remember though is the color of the water, the beautiful flowing water home to a plethora of exotic fish and even dolphins! I don't remember the way the markets smelled of spices, or the types of food sold on the Sabbath. I don't remember the soldiers with their guns, what types of guns they were carrying. These are small details. I do remember though haggling over the price of jewelry in the marketplace, surrounded by crowds of people, but I don't remember exactly how much I settled on or what type of jewels they sold.

But what I can tell you is of the tumultuous time leaving the city, as I boarded a bus full of soldiers, and civilians. I suddenly found myself stopped at a checkpoint with a Palestinian man on board. An Israeli officer boarded the bus, and walked down the aisle, skipping over everyone until he stopped in front of a dark-skinned man.

He began asking the Palestinian man to see his I.D. The man started arguing, shouting back and forth with the soldier, the tension rising in both their throats, pulses racing. Me not knowing what they were saying, as hands flew up in the air, guns poised. Sitting up extremely straight and taut, my muscles tightened, and hands clasped with a death grip on the arm of my seat. Inside, my head was spinning, my mind racing.

"What are they saying?" I whispered to the woman sitting next to me. I hope she knows English. "Can you understand them?"

Then someone turned to me and attempted to translate.

"He is saying that the officer is prejudice. 'You are prejudice. You are prejudice.' He keeps repeating that over and over."

I remember watching the faces of two young soldiers sitting in front of me, watching them watch the man and the officer argue. Their eyes like hawks, fixed, unbending. But I can't remember their faces other than their eyes. I can't remember the face of the Palestinian man either, his skin tanned brown, but all I remember is his voice, deep, full of anger.

I can tell you that it was a stupid idea to travel at 1 am aboard a bus in the middle of the desert. I'm lucky I survived. It was a risk on this great adventure to and from Eilat.

Small details escape me now years later, after the incident. But the feelings of the place and the memories still linger, creating a picture that only I can fill.

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